ListingLint / Fair Housing phrase guide

Fair Housing words to avoid in listings, and what's fine

124 phrases, each with the reason, a safer rewrite and the source it comes from: 38 avoid, 34 caution, 13 depends, 21 minor, 18 ok. To check a whole draft at once, use the free checker.

Every phrase links to its own page with the reason, the source and a check you can run on your own sentence. To print the list or save it as a PDF, use your browser's Print.

How to read the verdicts

  • Avoid Avoid means an explicit preference or limitation, or a phrase on the avoid side of the cited word lists. This is the risk end of the scale, not a style choice.
  • Caution Caution means the phrase is on the caution side of the cited lists, or describes people in a way that usually reads as a preference. Many agents still use some of these, but describing the property instead is the safer move.
  • Depends Depends means it's fine or not depending on how it's used. Read the reason, then decide for your sentence.
  • Minor Minor means it's usually fine and worth a second look. Treat it as a style question more than a legal one.
  • OK OK means a cited source treats it as acceptable. Any alternative shown is a house-style preference some offices or MLSs ask for, not a legal requirement.

There's no official list

There's no single official list. The federal rule bans ads that indicate a preference, limitation or discrimination based on a protected class, and boards, MLSs and press associations publish their own word lists to put that into practice. They mostly agree, and where they don't, the phrase page says so.

About the 1995 HUD memo

HUD no longer posts the 1995 memo on its website. Oregon REALTORS reported in April 2026 that HUD removed it without notice, and HUD withdrew its April 2024 digital-advertising guidance in September 2025. The Fair Housing Act and HUD's advertising regulation (24 CFR § 100.75) didn't change. Boards and MLS word lists still lean on the memo, which is why it's still cited here, as history and as the clearest explanation of how ads are read.

Race / color

Race / color phrases
PhraseVerdictSafer wording
white familiesAvoidRewrite by hand
caucasiansAvoidRewrite by hand
minority neighborhoodsAvoidRewrite by hand
integrated areaAvoidRewrite by hand
racially diverseAvoidRewrite by hand
ethnic neighborhoodAvoidRewrite by hand
ghettoAvoidRewrite by hand
diverse communityDependsvibrant
ethnic restaurantsDependsinternational restaurants
inner city neighborhoodMinorin-town neighborhood

National origin

National origin phrases
PhraseVerdictSafer wording
asian neighborhoodsAvoidRewrite by hand
english onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
citizens onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
latinosCautionRewrite by hand
oriental designCautionRewrite by hand
foreignersCautionRewrite by hand
all-american neighborhoodCautionRewrite by hand
spanish styleOKFine as written
chinatownOKFine as written

Religion

Religion phrases
PhraseVerdictSafer wording
christian neighborhoodAvoidRewrite by hand
walking distance to churchCautionnear places of worship
christianCautionRewrite by hand
✡Caution
god fearingCautionRewrite by hand
inside the eruvCautionRewrite by hand
near catholic schoolCautionRewrite by hand
churchDependsRewrite by hand
sabbath elevatorDependsRewrite by hand
parishMinorRewrite by hand
with chapelOKFine as written
kosher kitchenOKFine as written
merry christmasOKFine as written
near places of worshipOKFine as written

Sex, incl. sexual orientation & gender identity

Sex, incl. sexual orientation & gender identity phrases
PhraseVerdictSafer wording
women onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
single womanAvoidRewrite by hand
perfect for bachelorsAvoidRewrite by hand
gay friendly neighborhoodsAvoidRewrite by hand
bachelor padCautionstudio
lesbiansCautionRewrite by hand
women roommatesDependsroommate
man caveMinorbonus room
gentleman's farmMinorhobby farm
fisherman's paradiseMinorangler's retreat
handyman's dreamMinorfixer-upper
maid's roomMinordomestic quarters
seeking sameMinorRewrite by hand
girls' bedroomMinorbedroom
bachelor apartmentsMinorRewrite by hand
master bedroomOKFine as written (house style: primary bedroom)
mother-in-law suiteOKFine as written
bachelor apartmentOKFine as written

Disability

Disability phrases
PhraseVerdictSafer wording
no wheelchairsAvoidRewrite by hand
not suitable for wheelchairsAvoidRewrite by hand
able-bodied onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
crippledAvoidRewrite by hand
no hivAvoidRewrite by hand
no group homesAvoidRewrite by hand
non-drinkers onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
no service animalsAvoidassistance animals accommodated as required by law
must be able to live independentlyAvoidRewrite by hand
no canesAvoidRewrite by hand
agileCautionRewrite by hand
non-smokers onlyCautionnon-smoking property
disabled peopleCautionRewrite by hand
walking distanceDependsconvenient to
no petsDependsno pets (assistance animals considered)
handicapMinoraccessible
ideal for active buyersMinorRewrite by hand
wheelchair accessibleOKFine as written
walk-in closetOKFine as written
assistance animals welcomeOKFine as written

Familial status

Familial status phrases
PhraseVerdictSafer wording
no children allowedAvoidRewrite by hand
adults onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
one child onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
ideal for young familiesAvoidideal for everyday living
empty nestersAvoidRewrite by hand
singles onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
mature adultsAvoidRewrite by hand
no pregnant womenAvoidRewrite by hand
great for familiesCautiongreat for everyday living
family friendlyCautionwelcoming
safe for kidsCautionRewrite by hand
newlyweds welcomeCautionRewrite by hand
ideal for seniorsCautionRewrite by hand
quiet tenantsCautionRewrite by hand
no play areaCautionRewrite by hand
young professionalsCautionRewrite by hand
retirement homesCautionRewrite by hand
ideal for downsizersCautionRewrite by hand
ideal for grandkidsCautionRewrite by hand
one person onlyDependsRewrite by hand
55+ communityDependsRewrite by hand
starter homesMinorhome
family homeMinorhome
grandma's homeMinorcottage
family roomOKFine as written
kids welcomeOKFine as written
mature treesOKFine as written

State / local classes

State / local classes phrases
PhraseVerdictSafer wording
no section 8AvoidRewrite by hand
married onlyAvoidRewrite by hand
no militaryAvoidRewrite by hand
pay stubs requiredCautionincome requirements apply
no criminal recordsCautionscreening criteria apply
no studentsCautionRewrite by hand
low income peopleCautionRewrite by hand
young buyersCautionRewrite by hand
verifiable incomeDependsRewrite by hand
credit check requiredOKFine as written

Steering code words

Steering code words phrases
PhraseVerdictSafer wording
board approval requiredAvoidsale may be subject to the terms and conditions of the offering plan
preferred communityAvoiddesirable community
restrictedCautionRewrite by hand
safe neighborhoodCautionquiet neighborhood
like-minded neighborsCautionRewrite by hand
exclusive neighborhoodsDependsdesirable neighborhoods
private communityDependsquiet community
traditional neighborhoodDependsestablished neighborhood
prestigious neighborhoodMinordesirable neighborhood
near country clubMinorRewrite by hand
secure communityMinorRewrite by hand
executive homesMinorRewrite by hand
changing neighborhoodMinorRewrite by hand
blue-collar neighborhoodMinorestablished neighborhood
luxury townhouseOKFine as written
rare findOKFine as written