Fair Housing phrase guide / Sex, incl. sexual orientation & gender identity
Why “lesbians” gets a Fair Housing caution in listings
Caution Flagged as a caution, because it often reads as a preference for, or against, a group of people.
Why
References to sexual orientation or gender identity describe people, not the property. They're on the LIBOR and CRMLS avoid lists, and NAR's Code bars REALTORS® from ads indicating such preferences.
Safer wording
There's no one-click rewrite for this one. Describe the property, not the people, and rewrite this part by hand.
What the tag means
Caution means the phrase is on the caution side of the cited lists, or describes people in a way that usually reads as a preference. Many agents still use some of these, but describing the property instead is the safer move.
What the law covers here
Sex is a protected class under the federal Fair Housing Act. The flagged phrases describe who the home is for by sex or marital role (a bachelor pad, a man cave as a selling point to men). Many states and cities also name sexual orientation and gender identity as protected classes, so check your own state's list.
Sources
- NAR Code of Ethics, Article 10 and Standard of Practice 10-3
- Long Island Board of REALTORS®: Fair Housing Advertising Word and Phrase Guidelines (Mar. 2025)
- CRMLS Fair Housing Word & Phrase List (Apr. 2021)
Related phrases
All sex, incl. sexual orientation & gender identity phrases on one page · The 12-check listing checklist
Not legal advice. Word lists can't judge context, and laws differ by state and city, with some protecting more classes than federal law does. If you're unsure about a listing, ask your broker or a fair housing attorney. Rule sex-sogi-terms, ListingLint rules v2026.10.2.