Why “family friendly” gets a Fair Housing caution in listings

Why

Describes who belongs in the neighborhood rather than the property. LIBOR lists "Family" on its prohibited list. Name the amenity (park, playground, cul-de-sac) instead.

Safer wording

• welcoming

What the tag means

Caution means the phrase is on the caution side of the cited lists, or describes people in a way that usually reads as a preference. Many agents still use some of these, but describing the property instead is the safer move.

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• Caution “family friendly”

  Describes who belongs in the neighborhood rather than the property. LIBOR lists "Family" on its prohibited list. Name the amenity (park, playground, cul-de-sac) instead.

  Try: welcoming

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What the law covers here

Familial status means a household with one or more children under 18 living with a parent or legal custodian (or that person's designee). It also covers anyone who is pregnant or in the process of getting legal custody of a child. Housing that qualifies as housing for older persons has a separate exemption with its own requirements.

• Fair Housing Act definitions, 42 U.S.C. § 3602
• Housing for older persons exemption, 42 U.S.C. § 3607(b)

Sources

• Long Island Board of REALTORS®: Fair Housing Advertising Word and Phrase Guidelines (Mar. 2025)
• HUD "Achtenberg memo": Guidance Regarding Advertisements Under §804(c), Jan. 9, 1995

About the 1995 HUD memo

HUD no longer posts the 1995 memo on its website. Oregon REALTORS reported in April 2026 that HUD removed it without notice, and HUD withdrew its April 2024 digital-advertising guidance in September 2025. The Fair Housing Act and HUD's advertising regulation (24 CFR § 100.75) didn't change. Boards and MLS word lists still lean on the memo, which is why it's still cited here, as history and as the clearest explanation of how ads are read.

• Oregon REALTORS: Fair housing compliance after the guidance reset (Apr. 17, 2026)
• LeadingAge: HUD withdraws fair housing guidance documents (Sept. 17, 2025 memo)

Related phrases

• no children allowed Avoid
• adults only Avoid
• one child only Avoid
• one person only Depends
• ideal for young families Avoid
• great for families Caution
• safe for kids Caution
• empty nesters Avoid

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Not legal advice. Word lists can't judge context, and laws differ by state and city, with some protecting more classes than federal law does. If you're unsure about a listing, ask your broker or a fair housing attorney. Rule fam-family-friendly, ListingLint rules v2026.10.2.